Tag - relationship advice

Lonely but not alone

What If You Are Lonely But Not Alone

Sometimes you can feel alone inside your relationship. Even when you work well as a team together, and you trust each other, you miss feeling deeply connected . You start to wonder if this normal and if you should seek help. The solution: Many people are so busy raising children, or getting on with building their dreams for financial freedom, that they don’t notice how they are feeling. When you do notice that you indeed feel alone inside a relationship, pay [...]

Why women talk so much

Should A Man Cut Into A Woman’s Conversation To Help?

Your wife needs to feel connected to you when she talks. In fact the whole point of her discussion, is that there is no other point than to pay close attention to her every word as if you have never heard it before. If you try to fix what seems broken, she will not feel truly heard. She needs to feel close to you, which is why she talks. When she talks long enough she will figure out her [...]

what is a conscious relationship

What is a conscious relationship?

When your relationship reaches a stage where you need change consider a conscious relationship before you consider separation. A conscious relationship consists between two people when at least one the partners is aware of reflection as a form of personal growth. I like to explain it as a mirror-relationship, where your projections bounce back at you. A projection is when what you are assuming about what is going on and what you say is about the other person, is in [...]

#askadele Can having a baby save a relationship

Can Having A Baby Save A Relationship?

Why do we have babies? There is a myth that women believe about how a baby saves a relationship. But, is that a good enough reason to have one, and if not for that reason, then why… Can having a baby save a relationship is the topic of this week’s post. I answer this question in response to a question on a regular feature I host on #askADELE This will be published weekly in the local newspaper Saturday Star back page and answered on [...]

Little Known Ways Of How To Build Confidence

To way to overcome doubt is about learning how to build confidence. Do you ever doubt your decisions? Here are 5 confidence tips and 5 sure ways to improve decisions, especially useful in relationships. Learn how to overcome doubt when making decisions – do not USE your partner to make decisions for you We mostly assume that co-dependence is an emotional neediness on our partners. But it is also about having expectations in relationships, which are the source of most of our unhappiness. This [...]

Who Else Wants These Top Tips for Intimacy?

There are 4 top tips for intimacy that are useful to know when we realise that men and women need different things to reduce stress. Women predominantly want intimacy and men mostly desire sex.  Both men and women get what they really want in the same relationship. This is not the only different need between men and women, but it is one of the most important while women experience transition in the relationship. Men and women have different needs Stress is reduced differently in men and women Transition times requires vulnerability which [...]

Now Every Man Can Understand Women – Dating Advice

Dating advice is as easy as understanding women. But understanding women is not as simple as that. Why do some guys get the girls?  I bet you want to know. Dating advice is overrated. How to understand women is a life long commitment but easier when you get two simple things: When women close their hearts everything closes When men are insecure they cannot open women Pain closes women, period. No pain feels quite like heart pain: when your heart feels like someone [...]