This pandemic seems to have hit a second wave as if nature itself is saying:
“Did you not hear me the first time around?”
Make sure that you got the lesson loud and clear. Take a deep breath and walk with me through these insights.
Relationship builder 101 is what is waiting for you if you read this blog.
“When a person connects with, engages, and participates fully in this world, there is nothing insecure about it.”
Emotions are all that stand between men and women, and the love they seek.
In this blog I cover:
The 2 most basic concepts to grasp about women who respond and those who don’t
What you can do improve your chances for a preferred response
The reason most women don’t respond according to your effort
Understanding the different stages a woman might find herself in, and how […]
Sometimes you can feel alone inside your relationship. Even when you work well as a team together, and you trust each other, you miss feeling deeply connected . You start to wonder if this normal and if you should seek help.
The solution:
Many people are so busy raising children, or getting on with building their dreams for financial freedom, that they don’t notice how they are feeling. When you do notice that you indeed feel alone inside a relationship, pay […]
Your wife needs to feel connected to you when she talks. In fact the whole point of her discussion, is that there is no other point than to pay close attention to her every word as if you have never heard it before. If you try to fix what seems broken, she will not feel truly heard. She needs to feel close to you, which is why she talks. When she talks long enough she will figure out her […]
When your relationship reaches a stage where you need change consider a conscious relationship before you consider separation.
A conscious relationship consists between two people when at least one the partners is aware of reflection as a form of personal growth. I like to explain it as a mirror-relationship, where your projections bounce back at you. A projection is when what you are assuming about what is going on and what you say is about the other person, is in […]
Why do we have babies?
There is a myth that women believe about how a baby saves a relationship. But, is that a good enough reason to have one, and if not for that reason, then why…
Can having a baby save a relationship is the topic of this week’s post. I answer this question in response to a question on a regular feature I host on #askADELE
This will be published weekly in the local newspaper Saturday Star back page and answered on […]
To way to overcome doubt is about learning how to build confidence. Do you ever doubt your decisions? Here are 5 confidence tips and 5 sure ways to improve decisions, especially useful in relationships.
Learn how to overcome doubt when making decisions – do not USE your partner to make decisions for you
We mostly assume that co-dependence is an emotional neediness on our partners. But it is also about having expectations in relationships, which are the source of most of our unhappiness. This […]
There are 4 top tips for intimacy that are useful to know when we realise that men and women need different things to reduce stress.
Women predominantly want intimacy and men mostly desire sex.
Both men and women get what they really want in the same relationship. This is not the only different need between men and women, but it is one of the most important while women experience transition in the relationship.
Men and women have different needs
Stress is reduced differently in men and women
Transition times requires vulnerability which […]
