Tag - reflection

why counting matters

Counting You Matters, But Why?

If you know that you have a low self esteem this is an important blog for you to read. Some of us are counters and some of us are discounters. As a discounter self-promotion can be irritating and bring up emotions. Understanding why counting matters is vital if you are in a transformation space from where you need to build your new life after a separation, career change or experienced an emotional trigger that turned your world upside down. [...]

Relationship Problems: Use Relationship Mirrors

 USE RELATIONSHIP MIRRORS TO DETERMINE WHICH INNER SHIFTS YOU NEED TO LIVE AUTHENTICALLY Reading this book will give you access to see your relationship mirrors.   How can you discover your blinds spots that block your growth through relationships? It’s not about blaming your partner (ex-partners). It’s not about getting a divorce. A new life does not make the issues your feel go away. It’s not about getting a better partner or soulmate to replace your current partner.   A person with a low self-esteem, who feels unworthy, is likely [...]

I Am Sorry I Hurt You – Can You Forgive Me?

As I reflect at the end of the year, my message is extremely personal. I could have called it What it means to be a woman?, but didn’t. Instead I want to say “I am sorry I hurt you – can you forgive me?“. From a woman to a man … It would be fitting coming from me, the author of Can You See Me Naked:Grow in a conscious relationship, writing a book for men about what women need when they change. The time has [...]

The Best Relationship Advice After A Breakup

As the author of a spiritual-values relationship book, especially after being married for the third time, I share my lessons of relationships, here: This is the best advice after a breakup that I can offer you. In this article you will learn that: Photo-credit :http://www.richlymiddleclass.com Relationships are so much more than what your parents taught you Relationships have a hidden purpose There is no better way to learn who you are than through a relationship Whilst transforming, relationships offer the safest place in which to be vulnerable Women have [...]

Marry Me, Already!

How do we know when our partner is ready for marriage? What are the signs to look for when we have been around for too long to call them ‘boyfriends’? What prevents them from taking the next step? When everyone starts to wonder about us and it has become awkward to ask us this question, we also really want to understand what is behind the hesitation. “Why does my partner not marry me?” When courting does not automatically lead to marriage we need [...]

The Weight Anorexia Nervosa Really Wants To Shed

Nathalia struggled with rape, anorexia and later, with the relationships in her life. This article is presented as a conversation between a reader and an author. All women have a story – have you ever really told yours as it is? Here Nathalia bravely tells the story of how she sees herself and how she deals with her challenges. The journey to go within and express what you struggle with inside, is what heals you. We can only learn from those brave enough [...]