Tag - adversity impacts on relationships

How do you start over?

How Do You Leave Behind A Big Part Of Your Life?

Deciding to break up a relationship is so big: How do you leave behind a BIG part of your life? Recently I was interviewed by Shadow Twala on live national radio SAFM, on her show ‘Otherwise’. She asked some really profound questions about how we break dependency in relationship. Her questions about transformation reveals so much about how moms with children goes through transformation.   Learn how women understand transformation, how they leave a big part of themselves behind and break co-dependency. I answer how [...]

Do You Expect Too Much From Your Marriage?

With so many failed marriages we have to ask the question: “Do we expect too much from marriage?” Somehow when one becomes two, two becomes one and our self worth is measured through our partners words. Assess your self worth in your marriage: Just who are you? Are you a needy or confident lover? Photo credit: https://www.flickr.com/photos/alesk/2772736657 We mistakenly expect our partners to give us value when we lose our identity within marriage. Our partners experience this as neediness – which eventually leads to resentment. At the [...]